Wednesday, 1 March 2017

No more LIVE in FEAR; it's our commitment !!!!

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A leading actress was recently waylaid, harassed, humiliated for almost 2 hours in a moving car on one of Kerala's busiest corridors. The incident fetched monumental media coverage which in turn made this the talk of the town. This is nothing new for us as we heard of many such terrible incidents even in not so distant past as well. Surprisingly it never had any impact on our approach to such heinous crimes? To any such incident, we the average Indian possess the following 6 traits.   

1. Sympathize: Majority of us fall in this category. Whenever such act occurs, we sympathize religiously & forget the same conveniently after couple of days.  

2. Politicize: Pass the buck immediately in order to maintain reputation. We have myriad of such politicians. For ruling party, this is "an isolated case" & for opposition, it's deterioration of law & order

3. Fatalistic: For them, such incidents are inevitable & no escape. Even though, they possess a defeatist attitude, they are interested in scanning through all minute things... time of the crime...duration of crime...profile of victim...age of accused etc. Just to quench the curiosity, nothing else.   

4. Indifferent behavior: Most dangerous category among us. They maintain an attitude "so long as not happening to me, who cares"? If you sleep when injustice happens, then wait....you will be next. 

5. Strong annoyance:  They get upset so soon & take strong protests but never ever convert their exasperation's to resolutions.  

6 Mileage Makers: Most of our media comes under this. They always in pursuit of such "interesting stuff" for them. They either glorify or rationalize depending on victims category, aiming only their TRP / circulation. Many of our media persons have gathered PhD in victimizing a victim. 

In a nutshell, we generally get amused when somebody gets abused. The end result; we have developed a society where the accused freely roam around & the victim moves to isolation!! Friends, We may not be part of the problem but we are not part of the solution either. If we are not part of the solution, then WE are the PROBLEM. 

As somebody rightly said, "the world is a dangerous place to live, not because of the people who are evil, but because of the people who don't do anything about it". A women needs to respected not because they are women but because we are gentlemen. Let us together make this world a safer / better place for our women. 

Dedicated to the humankind....

Regards,

Anil Panicker

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Tuesday, 17 January 2017

Who can deny you “Life?”

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Who can deny you " Life" when you have decided to live your life to its fullest potential. 

Simple steps to do so....


Be a good learner: Friends, Life is very simple …never allow your mind to complicate it. It’s just B & D ie Birth & Death. Now what comes in between is “C” means the Choices. What makes life easier, sometimes tougher or in many times crazier is the result of choices we make during this stint.  In other words, life is the outcome of our own choices. Most of the times, people make bad choices when they are scared or stressed. But life always gives you chances to repair & recover. Every day is an opportunity for us to born fresh. Life hit hard only those who purposefully & constantly deny their mistakes. So be a good learner.


Never live a life in the fear: What are we scared for?  Sufferings or fear of death. Are we actually suffering or living in the fear of suffering coming to us.  Death is not an issue….the way we live is an issue. One more thing; 90% of what we worry about actually never happens. Then why worry...


Live now without ignoring the eventuality: When the past cannot be re-visited & the future cannot be foreseen, why not we enjoy the wonderful time called "NOW" Live every moment out of it. At the same time be aware of the eventuality that here everyone comes with an expiry date. Only two mandatory compulsions after birth are eat for survival & die one day however big or might you may be. 


How beautiful our world would be, if everyone has this realization. So friends. Life is too short to worry. Forgive quickly, love truly, dream big & smile often..... 

Now take a deep breath & realize how blessed we are. Nobody can deny life to you except yourself.



Regards......Anil Panicker






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