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A leading actress was recently waylaid, harassed, humiliated  for almost 2 hours  in a moving car on one of Kerala's busiest corridors. The incident fetched monumental media coverage which in turn made this the talk of the town. This is nothing new for us as we heard of many such terrible incidents even in not so distant past as well. Surprisingly it never had any impact on our approach to such heinous crimes? To any such incident, we the  average Indian possess the following 6 traits.    1. Sympathize:  Majority of us fall in this category. Whenever such act occurs, we sympathize religiously & forget the same conveniently after couple of days.   2. Politicize:  Pass the buck immediately in order to maintain reputation. We have myriad of such politicians. For ruling party, this is "an isolated case" & for opposition, it's deterioration of law & order .  3. Fatalistic:  For them, such incidents are inevitable & ...

Who can deny you " Life" when you have decided to live your life to its fullest potential.  Simple steps to do so.... Be a good learner:  Friends,  Life is very simple …never allow your mind to complicate it. It’s just B & D   ie   Birth & Death . Now what comes in between is “C” means the Choices . W hat makes life easier , sometimes tougher or in many times crazier is the result of choices we make during this stint.  In other words, life is the outcome of our own choices. Most of the times, people make bad choices when they are scared or stressed. But life always gives you chances to repair & recover. Every day is an opportunity for us to born fresh.  Life hit hard only those who purposefully & constantly deny their mistakes. So be a good learner. Never live a life in the fear:  What are we scared for?   Sufferings or fear of death. Are we actually suffering or living in the fear of suffering coming to u...

“Pretending to be loyal” is an art, which few people around us have mastered over the years.  Such person never criticizes you ... but always motivates you to open up.  They know how to grab information’s from you. By showing too much of concerns, they make you feel comfortable & won’t leave till you indiscreet something, which actually should have been remained private or confidential. Those who are highly susceptible in both actions & emotions normally fall preys to such people. In return, they often provide you with ideas which are either bizarre or just pie in the sky. They stab you from your back & innocently ask why you are bleeding. These people won’t get satisfied until they sabotage someone else’s happiness. They won’t sleep until they wreck someone’s dreams.   Whom you trust and tell your problems to? OR whom you confide to? Might look less intricate but for proper understanding & analyzing, it certainly requires an intellect which is...

For the past many years, provoking & irking India has turned out to be the national game for Chinese. One of the main reasons is the territory dispute. World’s top 2 most populous countries were going through a terrible border dispute which is unresolved for decades. China first violated the pact when they intruded in to our territory which resulted in to a brutal war in 1962. In spite of this, the bi-lateral relations were to some extent under control till 2004. The reason was nothing but our poor economy growth rate. On the other hand, China was dominating the world market & they could well afford complacency. Situation took a U-Turn when India stated shining.  Their skepticism went sky high when Mr. Modi took over the office & diligently planned visits to countries like US, Saudi, Iran, Brazil, Germany, UK & Japan. India’s acceptance among world nations shot up & this causes shivering among Chinese from the very root of their spine. The ...

A whopping 33 million cases are pending across various courts in India. The statistics proves more grim when we realize more than half of them are pending for more than 2 years & over 3.7 million cases (around 11%)  are awaiting conclusion for more than 10 years . Considering an involvement of minimum of 2-3 persons per case, justice is delayed OR denied indefinitely to over 50 million peoples of India. What is the ultimate use, if justice is given to someone once the essence of his / her life is over? What's the use, if someone is acquitted or accused after twiddling one's thumb for years together?  If this situation continues, our country will have 15 crores pending cases by end 2040.  Seems there is a systematic problem with India's judiciary.   Why there is a judicial pendency in India? As per me, there are many reasons to it; 1) Increasing criminal cases:  We are one of the leaders as far as crimes are concerned. Our ...

    Cau"Very  Shame" The Cauvery river dispute has raised its head again & has been raging since Sep 5. As a result,  many people are fueling violence at various locations of Karnataka and Tamil Nadu. India’s garden city turned out to be a city of Commotion & vandalism. Curfew was imposed in parts of Bangalore & city came to a standstill. Tamils have been attacked in Bangalore & Kannadigas assaulted in Chennai. Even though the interest of farmers, drought & famine were cited as main reasons, issue reached to a monstrous form due to poor systems & political inability. The situation, I believe is running out of political solution as of now. What is the actual issue? Issue is nothing but a river known as Cauveri, which is 809 km’s long.  The 44000 Sq.km of her basin area (BA), were occupied @ 54% & 42% by TN & Karnataka respectively. (Balance with Kerala & Puducherry). The bone of contention is the drought area ...

“I think women are foolish to pretend they are equal to men. They are far superior and always have been” William Golding Why feeling inferior? If woman is determined to rise, no power on this planet can stop that force.  Nature has given you so much. Power to create….Power to nurture…. Power to transform. What you need is.... embrace it. You have got the capabilities to transform lives.  You have got the magical Midas touch to make anything & everything larger. You make home out of house, sumptuous repast out of groceries & whole heart out of a simple smile.  You are capable of handling family & profession together & what is more commendable is you make best out of both worlds .  Women outnumber men in academics…In Bachelor’s degree, you are 23% ahead of men & when it comes to Master’s, you are ahead by 30%.  When it comes to sports, it is 2 among you, which helped India avoid a potentially embarrassing Olympic ...